Saturday, May 31, 2014

Day 91- Day 92 I left the house!! Like all day!

For the first time in FOREVER I actually left he house and was gone all day!!  Felt so good!  I actually had more energy when I got home.  Maybe it was the vitamin D.

It's kind of a long story, but basically my husband and I ended up hanging out for HOURS waiting for a tow truck.  It wasn't the most fun day, but so awesome that I could be there to help and support him. It would've SUUUCKED to do it alone. I also ate Chick Fil A... The fries weren't fresh, but it was nice to be able to eat on the go. I ate it at 3pm and it's now 1:35AM and I'm still not itching. Sounds ok to me... (UPDATE... Basically itched from 3:00-5:30am...took benedryl and passed out until 1:00pm)

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Moisturizer is starting to feel good and make improvements, but it tends to make me look more puffy and red.

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Today was the day I braved the world....  I looked like I was flour dusted and ready for a deep fryer, but I felt good!  This is what my skin looks like with no shower and no moisturizer.  haha.. I didn't have time to shower before I left the house.  Long story.  I will say, though, the closer I am to a shower and if I use moisturizer my skin burns more in the heat and when I sweat.  I ended up feeling pretty pain free most of the day.

These pics are obnoxiously close and closer than anyone really gets to my face, but I wanted to give a good picture of what I saw in the mirror.

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YEESH hahaha  Feels so much better than it looks.  


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To'e up...


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CELEBRATIONS:

  • Energy!  HUGE.  I feel like myself again today.  


STRUGGLES:

  • Dry skin Clearly this needs no explanation 
  • Ooze It's been better behind my ears!
  • Palpitations   had them a lot off and on the last few days.

Day 83- Day 90 Fever and Flare

Well, I got sick.  It's been a while since I've had a fever, so I guess I was due.  I got a small sinus infection from one of my kids.  Now, I'm not sure if the fever caused the flare, but it was pretty rude timing.

Day 83

I started getting sick.  And also started flaring up the night before.  CLEARLY from the way my neck is beaten up, I had a SCRATCH fest the night before.  I couldn't sleep and just felt hot and stickery all night.   Although, I've been sleeping SO much better lately!



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Man, I had an itch fest... I'm torn up.

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SICK.  Didn't leave bed all day.  Skin felt terrible and so did I.  Had fever.


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Sick.  Super sick.

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Looks like such a huge setback... 
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This thing is so pesky.  



Day 86

ON the mend skin AND sickness wise.


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As the day progressed I started feeling so much better!  So much so that I went with my husband to pick up our girls.  I didn't think my skin was looking too bad... and then I saw the flakes in the car mirror... YIKES hahaha  The dry skin makes me looked SO washed out.  Almost dead.



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I came home and showered and applied Shea butter...

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Not really sure what was join on with that eye... it just puffed up and got red out of nowhere.

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CELEBRATIONS:

  • SLEEP  I had a rough night in there, but overall I've been getting normal people sleep!  Going to bed when the hubbie does, sleeping and maybe waking up once to turn over and go back to sleep.  It's been really amazing. 
  • Improving faster  It seems like I'm improving faster after each flare.  Still slower than I'd like, but faster than the 2 month craze.
  • Energy These first few days were HORRIBLE, but the last few started to pick up to where I started feeling somewhat normal.
STRUGGLES:
  • FLAKES  Really tired of the cycle of puffy red and flaky dry skin.  So old.
  • Oozing ears  For some reason my ears got really bad lately... super annoying.




Months 1 & 2... Backtracking

So,  I FINALLY went through and uploaded my pics from the first two months of hell.  I get physically ill every time I look at them.  Honestly.  Month 2 is bad.  Anyway, here are the links to the pics....


Month 1

Month 2

Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Day 81 Marked Improvements

Well, these last few days have seen great improvements, so I'll start with celebrations:

CELEBRATIONS:

  • Sleep!  I've been able to fall asleep and go to bed when my husband does!  I fall asleep after him, but it's been before 1am several nights!  Also, I sleep longer stretches!  4-5 hours!  HUGE!  I was working with 2 at the max and then being up for 1-2 hours between. 
  • Ooze!  had very little the last few days.  The skin on my  neck feels so much stronger and less fragile.  My ears have since peeled and feel like somewhat normal skin again, but I have a feeling they aren't completely done oozing est.
  • Skin sensitivity  For the longest time, I couldn't stand the thought of touching my face to anything else.  My movements were dictated by my stupid mask face. The last few days I have been putting my face on my kid's faces and laying it on the pillow straight without anything in between me and the pillow.   A few times I have even done it without thinking or hesitating.  
  • Sleep positions!  I am now back to using one pillow and using it the way I want to for comfort. The last few days have NOT been riddled with creating a sleep position around my ooze or pain. (Two pillows, rolled up towel around neck, try to fall asleep on back so face and neck don't crust to something, sleep stiff as a board and wake up sore...etc)  I no longer have to be elevated and no longer need a towel to put around my neck so I don't move in the night.   I just get comfortable and go to sleep.  SO many people take this for granted, i'm certain.   Tonight, when you go to bed, think about me when you're getting cozy... haha
  • Mobility... for the longest time, I could hardly move my face.  Now, I move my face as I please.  I couldn't smile or make any gesture because the skin was SO tight.  Now, i don't really think about it.  I can also move my neck again without my skin tearing (for the most part... there is still one spot on my neck that will tear if I stretch my neck too far...)
  • Temperature Regultion
STRUGGLES:
  • Energy... This is my biggest complaint.  I feel like I have mono.  I am SO tired.  
  • Food... Some of you know that I have been eating the SAME THING FOR THE LAST 2 PLUS MONTHS.  I stuck to the same diet because I knew it didn't inflame my skin and I didn't have to think about it.  Well, the last few days I have been experimenting with LOTS of new foods.  I'm having trouble with some causing inflammation and itching.  I made an awesome ranch dressing with Macadamia nuts and it made my ears SO hot and itchy and made me literally feel like I was going crazy.  It's hard to describe but it was awful.  
  • Sweating
Ok, here are the pics from today:


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I started putting calendula cream on this spot and it's given great itch and dry relief.  Who knows if that will continue. 
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Sorry for the up the nose shot, I'm too lazy to crop.


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Still a bit torn up, but HUGELY improved.





 Here's a quick comparison to see the improvements over the last 3 weeks:

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Slow but steady...
Skin very much stronger and more reliable...  Day 60 is why I'm perfectly comfortable with what I feel like today...

Day 77- Day 79 Topical Steroid Withdrawal Flare Cycle and Some Questions

These few days captured a typical flare cycle.  And each time i have a flare, it gets less and less intense and oozy.  This time, I had very little oozing.  My ears are still troublesome and so is my neck, but it's becoming less and less.  I believe that the worst may be over.

A typical flare starts with hotness and swelling.  My skin will just feel hot and thick.  I'll typically feel sick as well.  Very run down and uncomfortable.  My sleep is interrupted as well.   Day 76 was the start of it and day 77 was still swollen.  Then, as the swelling subsides, the flakes and dry skin increase.  Showering makes me more dry, so I don't wash my face very often.  I wash it with a washcloth and distilled water.

I've gotten some questions from some people, so I'll answer them here:


Why don't you moisturize?  Well, to be honest, moisturizer makes me itch like CRAZY.  It makes the flakey skin soft and just sits on my skin like mud.  Blech.  It also irritates the skin a lot.  When you have ooze, moisturizer is just fully out of the question.  There will come a time when I moisturize...and I'm close to that time..but not quite.

Have you tried __________?  Yes.  haha.  And Topical Steroid Withdrawal isn't like regular eczema.  Your skin is in recovery from being completely depleted and is basically going from atrophied to normal skin again.  It's a grueling process that just takes time and patience.  Dr. Rapaport, the doctor who discovered this, will tell you that all you can do is make the patient comfortable.

Would getting out of the house help?  Aren't you getting stir crazy?  Yes and no... My energy is SO tanked that it often takes everything I have to just get through the day.  The thought of going out and being "on" is truly overwhelming.  I get outside in the sun when I can.  I miss people and doing stuff for SURE, but a dream day for me is just to be able to veg and not do ANYTHING.  Just rest.  But I'm still in the worst of it, so that's understandable.  The exhaustion feels like when I had mono in my teens.

Are you better?  This is a hard question to answer on a daily basis because "better" with TSW doesn't always mean looking and feeling better.  I'm always getting "better", my skin is always improving, but it's not linear.  It's like a roller coaster of ups and downs.  I may be feeling on top of the world one day and the next be feeling like total crud (Like here).  Overall, yes, I feel better.  My skin feels stronger and stronger each day and the mother loving oozing has subsided for the moment.

How are you doing it??  Honestly, without Chad I'd be up a creek.  He's been my savior.  I've also had a LOT of help.  My mom came for 2 weeks and the relatives I have in town offer help when they can.  Also, i just am.  I have no choice.  It's something I HAVE to go through to be well.

Ok, so here are the last few days in pics...


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This stupid wrist.  It was NOT this bad until I put Mario Badescu Control Cream on it a few days into withdrawal.  The control cream secretly had steroids in it and they have since stopped and changed their formula.  As compensation, they offered a Mario Badescu gift card to everyone who used it.  REALLY?
 

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The eye is better!  A huge improvement from the nasty wound from a few days before.
 

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Drying up... and starting to heal. 



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These shots are outside, so the light is a little different.   It doesn't emphasize the redness as much, but does the flakes.

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I peal ALL DAY LONG.  My bed has to be shaken out every night because it feels like salt in the bed from dead skin.  It doesn't feel dry and the flakes are actually super soft, unlike the sandpaper skin I was dealing with before. 
 

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So, to answer your question, NO, I don't want to go anywhere haha


STRUGGLES: 

  • Sleep has been slowly improving but still a struggle to fall asleep.  
  • ENERGY.  Feel like I'm dying most days.
CELEBRATIONS:
  • Less ooze
  • Fares getting less intense.